54 - Eating humble pie
Language to use when you need to stand your ground
Chaos continues at Tip Top Trading. Paper is all over the place and important messages aren't getting through. What can the team do to improve the situation? Paul might have to admit his mistake and ask someone to come back to help out.
Intermediate · 170712 · 2017-07-12
Chaos continues at Tip Top Trading. Paper is all over the place and important messages aren't getting through. What can the team do to improve the situation? Paul might have to admit his mistake and ask someone to come back to help out. Language to use when you need to stand your ground This episode focuses on the language that you might use or hear when you need to stand your ground.
1. You're the boss and I think the news is better coming from you.
US: You're the boss and I think the news is better coming from you.
2. It was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed.
US: It was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed.
3. This is your responsibility.
US: This is your responsibility.
4. And here are some phrases your boss might use to apologize:
US: And here are some phrases your boss might use to apologize:
5. I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office.
US: I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office.
6. Sorry, I made a mistake. I miscalculated my staffing numbers.
US: Sorry, I made a mistake. I miscalculated my staffing numbers.
7. I would love to have you back in the office.
US: I would love to have you back in the office.
1. Narrator
Welcome back to the chaotic offices of Tip Top Trading. Now Denise has left the company, the place is a mess and important phone messages are being lost. What can be done to make things better? I think we know the answer!
US: Welcome back to the chaotic offices of Tip Top Trading. Now Denise has left the company, the place is a mess and important phone messages are being lost. What can be done to make things better? I think we know the answer!
2. Paul
Hi. Did anyone take a message for me while I was out? I'm expecting an important call.
US: Hi. Did anyone take a message for me while I was out? I'm expecting an important call.
3. Tom
Err... no!
US: Err... no!
4. Anna
Actually yes Paul. I wrote it on Tom's hand but he washed it off.
US: Actually yes Paul. I wrote it on Tom's hand but he washed it off.
5. Tom
Look, good hygiene's very important to me.
US: Look, good hygiene's very important to me.
6. Paul
Hmm. That's not very good is it? What's wrong with writing on a piece of paper?
US: Hmm. That's not very good is it? What's wrong with writing on a piece of paper?
7. Anna
We've run out of paper... and pens.
US: We've run out of paper... and pens.
8. Tom
Everything really. Nobody's ordered any stationery or tidied up the office.
US: Everything really. Nobody's ordered any stationery or tidied up the office.
9. Anna
It's since Denise left.
US: It's since Denise left.
10. Paul
Yes, maybe I was a bit hasty getting rid of her. It was really just to save money.
US: Yes, maybe I was a bit hasty getting rid of her. It was really just to save money.
11. Tom
Yeah, but look, if we can't take messages from possible clients we're going to lose even more money.
US: Yeah, but look, if we can't take messages from possible clients we're going to lose even more money.
12. Paul
Yes... I suppose you have a point. Maybe I will to have reinstate her.
US: Yes... I suppose you have a point. Maybe I will to have reinstate her.
13. Anna
You mean, get her back?
US: You mean, get her back?
14. Narrator
Yes Anna, he does. Another way of saying reinstate is he's got to 'reverse his decision'. It means Paul has got to make an awkward call to Denise.
US: Yes Anna, he does. Another way of saying reinstate is he's got to 'reverse his decision'. It means Paul has got to make an awkward call to Denise.
15. Tom
Look Paul, you're going to have to call her and tell her you've made an error... a huge one actually.
US: Look Paul, you're going to have to call her and tell her you've made an error... a huge one actually.
16. Paul
It wasn't that huge? Actually... Anna, you're her good friend, would you like to call her?
US: It wasn't that huge? Actually... Anna, you're her good friend, would you like to call her?
17. Anna
Me?! B-b-but I can't.
US: Me?! B-b-but I can't.
18. Narrator
What a coward! I think it's time to stand your ground Anna. Tell him "You're the boss, I think it's better coming from you", and remind him "it was your decision so you need to explain the situation", and remind him "this is your responsibility". You could suggest he says "I'm sorry, I made a mistake and we would love to have you back."
US: What a coward! I think it's time to stand your ground Anna. Tell him "You're the boss, I think it's better coming from you", and remind him "it was your decision so you need to explain the situation", and remind him "this is your responsibility". You could suggest he says "I'm sorry, I made a mistake and we would love to have you back."
19. Anna
Okay. Do you know what Paul, I think the news is better coming from you... just to make it official.
US: OK. Do you know what Paul, I think the news is better coming from you... just to make it official.
20. Tom
Yeah Paul, you are the boss after all.
US: Yeah Paul, you are the boss after all.
21. Anna
And it was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed.
US: And it was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed.
22. Paul
Well, maybe you're right but I can't tell her I'm wrong can I?
US: Well, maybe you're right but I can't tell her I'm wrong can I?
23. Anna
Look, just say you're sorry. Tell her you made a mistake and I would love to have you back... we all would. PaulYes, you're right. I should do it. I'll just have a quick cookie. Here goes.
US: Look, just say you're sorry. Tell her you made a mistake and I would love to have you back... we all would. PaulYes, you're right. I should do it. I'll just have a quick cookie. Here goes.
24. Denise
Hello?
US: Hello?
25. Paul
Ah... h-h-h-ello Denise. It's me... Paul...your boss... your ex-boss from Tip Top Trading.
US: Ah... h-h-h-ello Denise. It's me... Paul...your boss... your ex-boss from Tip Top Trading.
26. Denise
Oh.
US: Oh.
27. Paul
How are you... getting on?
US: How are you... getting on?
28. Paul
Good, good. Actually, I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office...
US: Good, good. Actually, I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office...
29. Denise
Yes?
US: Yes?
30. Paul
And...well... I'm sorry Denise... I... miscalculated my staffing numbers.
US: And...well... I'm sorry Denise... I... miscalculated my staffing numbers.
31. Denise
You mean you made a mistake?
US: You mean you made a mistake?
32. Paul
Well, I suppose so. So... I would love to have you back in the office as soon as possible. What do you say?
US: Well, I suppose so. So... I would love to have you back in the office as soon as possible. What do you say?
33. Denise
Hmm, let me think about it... hmmm... errr... well... hmmm...
US: Hmm, let me think about it... hmmm... errr... well... hmmm...
34. Narrator
What will Denise decide? It was a hard phone call for Paul to make, but not one Anna should have made as it wasn't her mistake. She stood her ground with Paul and used the following phrases: You're the boss and I think the news is better coming from you. It was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed. This is your responsibility.
US: What will Denise decide? It was a hard phone call for Paul to make, but not one Anna should have made as it wasn't her mistake. She stood her ground with Paul and used the following phrases: You're the boss and I think the news is better coming from you. It was your decision in the first place so you need to explain that the situation has changed. This is your responsibility.
35. Narrator
And here is a reminder of the phrases Paul used to try and apologize: I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office. Sorry, I made a mistake. I miscalculated my staffing numbers. I would love to have you back in the office.
US: And here is a reminder of the phrases Paul used to try and apologize: I've been rethinking our staffing situation in the office. Sorry, I made a mistake. I miscalculated my staffing numbers. I would love to have you back in the office.
36. Denise
Hmmm... well... Okay then. I'll start back tomorrow.
US: Hmmm... well... OK then. I'll start back tomorrow.
37. Paul
Oh wonderful. I'm so pleased. We'll get your old chair back in position.
US: Oh wonderful. I'm so pleased. We'll get your old chair back in position.
38. Denise
Actually Paul, if you want me back I'll need a new chair... and a new phone...
US: Actually Paul, if you want me back I'll need a new chair... and a new phone...
39. Paul
Okay Denise! See you tomorrow.
US: OK Denise! See you tomorrow.
40. Denise
And a pay rise!
US: And a pay rise!
41. Tom
So, is she coming back then?
US: So, is she coming back then?
42. Paul
Yes, first thing tomorrow.
US: Yes, first thing tomorrow.
43. Tom
That's good because we've just had a call from Nice'n'Cheesy - they said nobody returned their call yesterday and that if we don't contact them by the end of tomorrow they will go elsewhere for their plastic grapes.
US: That's good because we've just had a call from Nice'n'Cheesy - they said nobody returned their call yesterday and that if we don't contact them by the end of tomorrow they will go elsewhere for their plastic grapes.
44. Paul
Right, we must act... and act fast.
US: Right, we must act... and act fast.
45. Narrator
Let's hope they don't lose that contract. At least with Denise returning to work, things will be a little more organized but for how long? Join us again next time on English at Work. Bye!
US: Let's hope they don't lose that contract. At least with Denise returning to work, things will be a little more organized but for how long? Join us again next time on English at Work. Bye!
Question
What does Paul tell Denise he has been rethinking?
Answer
The staffing situation/numbers.